Quoting MissteriousOne:

I am not here to win a popularity contest. I am here to, if I am exceptionally lucky, make a Connection. In another blog, I declared real Connections are exceptionally rare. I'm speaking of that Connection that makes you want to move mountains to get to that person, thrills you to see they are online... takes your breath away! If there is no photo, no additional information... I, personally, am left to do nothing in response... and you might have been my special Connection.

If there is initial attraction after viewing a photo, after perusing the abundance of profiles, I immediately proceed to read your information to see if there is additional attraction in the words you write. I want to ascertain if I am not only attracted to the physical attributes of a Cub, but to their personality, their interests and their mental attitude.

Most of the time, I discover there is no additional information... no clue to lead me to wish to pursue you further. Even more disconcerting is the fact that so many profiles have no photo, AND no additional details to pique a Cougar's interest. How can one choose to initiate interest, if we are left with nothing to work with... to wrap our minds around?

So, Cubs of CougarMingle, if you want your dream Cougar to respond... please attach a photo. Then, give a few details about yourself that will pique her interest. Remember... the Cougar is intelligent, confident, knowledgeable about what they wants and, on the whole, perceptive. Your photo and your personal details might aid in finding the Cougar you desire. And if we are fortunate... we just might find that rare, special Connection that ignites a mutual fire. At which point, we will add fuel to that fire with every breath we take.

I am not here to win a popularity contest. I am here to, if I am exceptionally lucky, make a Connection. In another blog, I declared real Connections are exceptionally rare. I'm speaking of that Connection that makes you want to move mountains to get to that person, thrills you to see they are online... takes your breath away! If there is no photo, no additional information... I, personally, am left to do nothing in response... and you might have been my special Connection.

If there is initial attraction after viewing a photo, after perusing the abundance of profiles, I immediately proceed to read your information to see if there is additional attraction in the words you write. I want to ascertain if I am not only attracted to the physical attributes of a Cub, but to their personality, their interests and their mental attitude.

Most of the time, I discover there is no additional information... no clue to lead me to wish to pursue you further. Even more disconcerting is the fact that so many profiles have no photo, AND no additional details to pique a Cougar's interest. How can one choose to initiate interest, if we are left with nothing to work with... to wrap our minds around?

So, Cubs of CougarMingle, if you want your dream Cougar to respond... please attach a photo. Then, give a few details about yourself that will pique her interest. Remember... the Cougar is intelligent, confident, knowledgeable about what they wants and, on the whole, perceptive. Your photo and your personal details might aid in finding the Cougar you desire. And if we are fortunate... we just might find that rare, special Connection that ignites a mutual fire. At which point, we will add fuel to that fire with every breath we take.